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Meet Amy Mueller, 26 of Wisconsin, says her garden gives her a chance to relax after a long day at work, "I spend my days at work thinking, in the garden, I don't have to."

How did you first begin gardening? How long have you been gardening? What motivated you to begin gardening?

I began gardening in the Spring of 1996. The apartment I live in has a side yard and a garden space. This was the first garden experience, aside from picking vegetables in my mom's garden, that I ever had. The building owners told me I could plant in the space available and I took full advantage.

I wanted something nice to look at in the summertime, especially after 5 years of living in apartments in the city. I grew up in the country and was used to the natural wildflowers. My first garden was a real eye-opener on nature. I was not prepared to be a gardener. I did not use any topsoil and planting in clay made my plants look no bigger than the day I bought them.

My second year was fabulous! I started my seeds on my own, indoors in the early spring. Everything was ready to be planted on time. I bought all kinds of gardening tools and lots of topsoil and turned the ground up really well.

All the plants survived the transplant and made me realize that I really liked gardening! This year, I have taken over more areas where the annuals grew and planted perennials in their place.

My motivation is the chance to see my young spring plants stretch out and grow and bloom for the summer. I have also planned out my garden for fall planting and I am ready to start enjoying my garden for the summer, now that the mulch is down and the plants are getting bigger.

What has gardening taught you about yourself? Have you discovered parts of yourself through gardening?

I have learned to have more patience. In the beginning, I thought that all you had to do to have a garden was to go to the store and buy a flat of plants and they would take care of themselves from there. I have discovered that I have a lot to learn when it comes to gardening, but I am discovering that I have a real knack for gardening.

For some, gardening is therapy. Is it like this for you? If so, how?

I do consider gardening as therapy. It keeps me occupied and exercised at the same time. Every night after dinner, I can go out and pull weeds, deadhead the spent flowers and then just admire the beauty of it all. I find myself relaxed in taking care of my garden and I can escape from my thoughts of hectic days at the office.

What do you grow? Where do you garden? How many acres do you plant?

I love to grow flowers. Right now I have over twenty different kinds to tend to, such as, Vincas, Violas, Petunias, Pansies, Marigolds, Sweet Williams, Cosmos, and more. I garden in my side yard garden.

My upstairs neighbor has taken over part of the space for container gardening, but I prefer digging straight in the dirt. The space really isn't that big, the main part of my garden is about six feet by twelve feet and I have taken over several other spaces among the annuals (Iris, Rose bushes, and Raspberry bushes) and connected it all with a curving border.

What is your favorite thing to grow? Why is this your favorite?

My Favorite is my Sweet William Flowers. I bought them when I first started my garden and they started out as six small plants with fuscia and white fringed flowers. I let them winter over with out removing them or covering them.

The next spring, they had tripled and were full of buds! I had read that these were considered biennials, so I really did not expect what I got this year. They had tripled in size again and are now full of blooms. I think I picked out the strain of Sweet William that will come back as an annual, but then again, maybe my gardening skills paid off. :)

What steps do you take to get your garden ready every year?

I usually start planning my garden in March. I get out the garden catalogs and my notebook and begin drawing the layouts of what flowers I want where. I also get ideas for different colors schemes, but I find I like the pinks and reds the best.

Towards the end of April, I go out and remove the leaf mulch from the winter and turn the soil. I get about three bags of topsoil and work that in around the bulbs and put down fertilizer. Next spring I will have to do something different, as I am going to be planting about 150 bulbs that consist of Hyacinth, Muscari, Asiatic Lillies, Crocus, Tulips and other spring plants this October.

What advice do you have for those who want to start gardening?

READ READ READ!! The more you know, the better your garden will be. I asked for gardening books for Christmas and my birthday, the first year I started to garden. I found I didn't have to study them like a textbook, however I used them in reference to my situation and what and where I was growing. A lot of patience and care goes into gardening, and common sense is a powerful gardening tool.

Do you ever garden with others? If so, how does it impact your relationships?

I can't say that I garden with others, as in alongside, but my neighbor is a container gardener and my building owners live next door and they have a very large garden. I find it gives us all a common ground when discussing things and admiring each others work. And I sometimes seek them out for advice in the garden, and they will do the same.

What are the joys of gardening?

Watching the seeds sprout, smelling the flowers, and killing slugs.

What mistakes have you made with your garden?

One of the biggest mistakes I made, was letting the slugs and snails get as far as they did with destroying some of my plants. I have a bird feeder hanging over my garden and with the excess bird seed on the garden, it created an environment that the slugs an snails thrived in. Before I could stop them, they killed a lot of plants. I will be using more slug repellent to protect my plants the rest of the season.

What books, television programs, videos, magazines have helped you learn about gardening?

I have a Better Homes and Gardens book, and lots and lots of gardening catalogs from the mail which help me in choosing the right flowers for my Zone. I have a somewhat shady garden, so reading about what flowers grow best there, helps me decide what to buy and exactly where to grow it.

What challenges does your garden give you?

I am challenged by my garden by how many flowers I can plant and grow. With the space being tucked between a garage and a two story building, I only get about five or six hours of sun a day. So I have to take care in choosing plants that will accept small amounts of sun.

How do you handle insects and other animals that might interfere with your garden?

Currently I am trying to rid my garden of slugs and snails. I also have an ant problem with my Vincas. The ants do not allow the flower much time before they have eaten it entirely. With the slugs, I just laid down a Cocoa Shell Mulch and I tend to sprinkle salt or dunk the slugs I come in contact with. I also use commercial products, such as Ortho's Bug Geta, which works well too. I currently have ant traps laid out for the ants and I am exploring other options to rid them of my Vincas.

What have you discovered improves the quality of your garden?

I have discovered that putting down a cocoa shell mulch, makes it look "finished" with all the plants and flowers blooming.

Does your garden have a theme? A name? Is it symbolic of something?

Well, my garden doesn't have a theme or a name, but it's just something I really enjoy doing.

How much time do you spend on your garden each day, or week, or month?

I try to spend up to two hours daily or more in the beginning of the season and the end of the season. Although in the main part of the season, I really can get by with only an hour or less. It depends on what needs to be done.

What do you think about while you are gardening?

I try not to think when I am gardening! I just like to concentrate on the flowers and how things are doing. I spend my days at work thinking, in the garden, I don't have to.

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